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THE ROOT OF IT ALL

Analyzing negative thought patterns is helpful sometimes, but they are never the root of it all. These thoughts are just an expression of the old familiar belief that there is something missing, or wrong with you. The root of it all is You. And this ‘You’ is not a thought or belief. It is not something to agree, or disagree with. It is not something to become, or to doubt. It is the whole, spacious freedom that you have always been, even if thought imagines, or insists otherwise.

~ Unmani

NEW YOUTUBE: ‘WHAT ARE YOU REALLY SEARCHING FOR?’

A recent video filmed at our last intensive in Wales. ‘What are you really searching for?’
https://youtu.be/2RUHmY_kZwo

SLOWING DOWN

 As most of you already know, I am now about 7 months pregnant. Over the next few months, I am taking some time to slow down, and just be with what is happening with my body, our baby, and our beautiful little family.

Although I won’t be traveling or holding more meetings or intensives until August, I am offering a limited number of online private sessions until mid April. If you would like to arrange these, please see: https://www.die-to-love.com/wp/dive-in/online-private-sessions/
I will also be continuing with our Monthly Themed Webinars as long as it feels good to do.
During these ‘slow’ few months, Robert, will continue to post here on Facebook,Youtube, and our website. And Nicola, my assistant, will continue to respond to emails at: admin@die-to-love.com
Love Unmani

WAKING UP TO REALITY

Perhaps it’s time to wake up to reality. This reality might not fit your ideas about how ‘awakening’ should be. It does not give you any great reward, and is not necessarily comfortable. It might actually be painful to acknowledge what is really here. But the reality of what is really here, is where you are at right now. It’s like admitting that, yes this is what is happening now – whether I’d like to be more enlightened, or non-dual, or anything else. Throwing out all ideas about how it should be or could be, this is actually the truth of this human right now.
~ Unmani

THANK YOU TO THE PARTICIPANTS

Yesterday we finished the 5 day intensive in Wales. Thank you to all those lovely people who participated. Today we return to Amsterdam, where we will be based for the next few months.

I AM NOT ANY PARTICULAR EXPERIENCE

We are usually so fixated on experience that we assume that when there is a so-called ‘good’ experience, that that means that ‘I am a good person’, and when there is a so-called ‘bad’ experience, that that means ‘I am a bad person’. Thought doesn’t know who am I, so it looks to the play of experience for the answer. But experience keeps changing. We keep looking for our identity in what happens, rather than seeing that who we really are is that that is aware of the whole play of experience without exception.

~ Unmani

MONTHLY THEMED WEBINAR: ‘THE NATURE OF SUFFERING’

This month’s themed webinar will be this coming Sunday 1st March at 9pm GMT, and is entitled ‘What is the nature of suffering?’.
It is an opportunity for us to explore, share and inquire into the nature of suffering. There are no perfect answers or solutions but together we can bring some clarity where there might be confusion. Join us by clicking on the link.
https://www.die-to-love.com/dive-in/monthly-themed-webinar/

New Video Download

We have a new video filmed recently in USA, which is now available to download on our Video Downloads page.

‘Know Yourself’
https://www.die-to-love.com/wp/shop/video-downloads/

HOW TO LIVE WHAT YOU REALLY ARE?

In a way the recognition of what you are, or initial awakening, is the easy part. But living as that is the real challenge. As much as it may try, thought can not help out. Whatever ideas you may have about how this should be lived, are meaningless. The truth is that you just don’t know. Living with that not knowing moment to moment can bring up fear and anxiety. Everything is undefended. You are walking vulnerability – an open wound. Open to whatever is here now. Not only to the pain and heartbreak of life, but also it’s unending heartbreaking beauty. Responding moment to moment to life experience as it presents itself. Letting your heart break open and open as you meet life in all its glory and its horror.
~ Unmani

Video from SAND 2014

Here is the video recorded at the Science and Nonduality conference in October last year. Enjoy :-)

http://www.scienceandnonduality.com/oneness-beyond-belief-unmani/

 

Events

‘Awakening to Wholeness’ – 5 Day Intensive Retreat in Portugal – April 2025

5 Day Intensive Retreat in Portugal

10th – 14th April 2025

Barao de Sao Joao, Western Algarve

Join us for a transformative journey of awakening to yourself as Oneness beyond all separation, and also embracing the individual ‘you’ in the world.

 

‘The Heart of Freedom’ – 10 Day Intensive Retreat in Portugal – October 2024

13th – 23rd October 2024

Join Unmani for this intensive retreat in Portugal

Also available to join online!

‘A Call to Awaken’ – Intensive Retreat in Portugal – November 2023 – also online!

12th – 19th November 2023

Join Unmani for this intensive retreat in Portugal

Available residential or non-residential

Also available to join online!

‘Freedom is Who you Are’ – Intensive Retreat in The Netherlands – 28th July – 1st August 2025

28th July – 1st August 2025

Join Unmani for this residential retreat in The Netherlands